Asking Eric: We gave a relative money for enlisting. Shouldn’t he return it after changing his mind?
A family collected cash at a party to help a relative headed to Marine basic training; he changed his mind within 24 hours and kept the money, leaving relatives wondering if it should be returned.
Dear Eric: A family member chose to enlist in the Marines. A party was held for him. Everybody was asked to give cash, so he’d have what he needed while in basic training.
Less than 24 hours later we were told he changed his mind and decided not to enlist, which thrilled everyone.