I feel more like a babysitter than a member of my family
A family member who handles caregiving, rides, hosting and lending asks how to set boundaries without guilt and whether they’re valued for themselves or just for what they do.
Dear Annie: I am the person everyone in my family calls when they need something. I babysit, drive relatives to appointments, host holidays and lend money when someone is in a bind. I rarely complain because I love my family and want to be helpful.