Miss Manners: Skip the mandatory tip if service is truly terrible?
A woman asks whether her 11-person monthly Moms Night Out can refuse the automatic 18% gratuity when service is awful.
Dear Miss Manners: My friends and I have been celebrating a monthly Moms Night Out for years. There are 11 of us, and it’s common practice that the restaurants we visit include an 18% gratuity in our bill because we are such a large party.